felisviolaceous (
felisviolaceous) wrote2005-03-30 06:18 pm
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Just a quick flare! :{
Some people just need to get their hair yanked on HARD and an extremely rough knife drawn SLOWWWWWLYYYY across their necks...just so they do not spread their immature, intolerant attitudes to others!!!!
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Could be :-) What do YOU think,
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What it takes is being willing to use that intensity; for most of us raised to be gentlemen, that does mean having to circumvent/short-circuit our lifelong imprinted "be nice" conditioning. One trick is to realize...you're still "being nice" in the end - at least to a masochistic submissive piggyslut who's motto is "more more more" :-) It also helps to have a sadistic nature - not necessarily pain-sadism, but control, emotional-intensity sadism (there's probably a better word, can't think of it) - such that wielding that "rapier" is immensely satisfying & erotic.
It occurs to me that learning to "wield" emotional intensity would be very good for you - a way of dealing with it, other than detaching or turning it off. Glad to discuss more anytime...
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Please!
But not tonight. Must sleep.