Ooooohhhhh...I find it very easy for me to wield "it" like a gentleman's rapier. You two can pick the "it". *giggling*
As for emotional intensity, my whole life was lived with emotions out on our sleeves for all to see and do what they will with it. I was, fortunately, raised in a family where living like that didn't become a bad thing the older I became. The only drawback to it is apparently if you don't hide your emotions people assume you're immature.
One of the things I've really been searching in the BDSM world is the emotional intensity. Yes...the physical intensity is great and wonderful...but the emotional intensity can really rock one's world! Plus...with me being so open emotionally all my life...it becomes a challenge to find something that actually challenges my own emotional boundaries. That's where the mental aspects of dominance and submission comes into play for me.
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Date: 2005-03-31 05:58 am (UTC)As for emotional intensity, my whole life was lived with emotions out on our sleeves for all to see and do what they will with it. I was, fortunately, raised in a family where living like that didn't become a bad thing the older I became. The only drawback to it is apparently if you don't hide your emotions people assume you're immature.
One of the things I've really been searching in the BDSM world is the emotional intensity. Yes...the physical intensity is great and wonderful...but the emotional intensity can really rock one's world! Plus...with me being so open emotionally all my life...it becomes a challenge to find something that actually challenges my own emotional boundaries. That's where the mental aspects of dominance and submission comes into play for me.